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Are you curious about what it's like to work with me?

First, know this.

I’m Not Here to Fix You.

You’re not broken

And this isn’t performance coaching.

It’s not about hacks, hustle, or high-fives.

This is deep work—the kind that leads to clarity, healing, and sustainable transformation.

It will absolutely lead to even greater success for you in the future, but that can’t be the aim.

For this to work, it has to be about more than performance.

If you’re here, it means something inside you is ready.

And I’m here to walk beside you.

Here’s how I’ll help you navigate what comes next.

1. We Start With Clarity

Before we do anything else, we name what’s true.

Together, we’ll create a brutally honest but compassionate picture of your inner world.

You’ll gain clarity around:

Where you actually are—not just externally, but internally too.
What you’re really after—not what you’ve been told to want.
What’s in the way—patterns, pain, and protective strategies that once kept you safe but no longer serve you.

Most men skip this step.

They jump into action without understanding who or what is driving them.

We slow down first, to we can gain the clarity we need—so we can speed up with intention later.

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2. Then We Build the Roadmap

Once we see clearly, we begin to move.

You’ll know what to expect—not because I hand you a script, but because I help you design a path that’s uniquely yours.

And we’ll walk that path together, you leading, me guiding and supporting you.

As you identify present day challenges; areas needing change in real time, we’ll forego the bandaid and trace those present day symptoms back to their root so that we can eliminate the underlying cause.

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3. We’ll Do the Work That Changes Everything

Not incremental improvement. Transformation.

This isn’t about managing symptoms, applying bandaids or adding morning routines to a broken system.

This is tactical, guided, experiential work that:

Unwinds patterns that have silently run your life for far too long.

Loosens the grip of shame, fear, and the need to prove yourself.

Restores your connection to the parts of you that you’ve been trying to kill.

It’s the work that Rewires your nervous system.

Our work together will be intuitive, relational, emotionally honest and firmly grounded in neuroscience.

I draw from Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems (IFS), narrative reframing, Organic Intelligence, parts work, mindfulness, addiction recovery strategies and good old-fashioned truth-telling.

Our approach will encompass your heart, body, mind and soul.

We’ll identify, understand and replace the subconscious beliefs that keep you stuck.

We’ll use interventions and modalities to optimize your physical health.

We’ll engage your brain to accelerate your integration.

I’ll Also Share Proven Frameworks for Self-Understanding

Frameworks that we will use to nourish your life from the ground up.

All with the intention of rewiring your nervous system and unlocking your highest potential.

And we’ll tap into the center of your being to ensure that what we’re doing is in line with your Truth.

In short, we’ll do the work needed to cleanse you of the residue of your past.

So that you can fully embrace the present.

AND Thrive into the future!

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Are You Ready to Feel Better?

That’s an honest question. This work isn’t for everyone.

But if you’ve read this far, there’s a good chance it’s for you.

Let’s connect, get to know eachother a bit and find out if I can help you.

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“I can’t thank you enough for your willingness to help me learn and grow in all areas of my life. I'm beyond grateful to walk alongside you. I’m not sure where I would be if I didn't have you in my life. Thank you for your patience, encouragement and all your support. Love you man.”

- Chris Michaels

“It's difficult to put into words how grateful I am to have met you.You have forever changed my life, Andrea’s life and most importantly, the lives and future of my children. You have empowered me to not only dream bigger, but to believe in myself. I am honored to call you my friend.”

- Shane Chapin

FAQs

What kind of men do you work with?

I work with men who are ready to go deeper. Some have built incredible external success and feel like something’s still missing. Others are still on the rise but already sense that achievement alone won’t fulfill them. If you’re ready for change and are willing to ask and answer the hard questions, you’re probably ready for this.

Do I have to be “successful enough” to do this work?

No. You don’t need to hit a certain income or status milestone to start this journey. In fact, the earlier you start, the better. The real requirement isn’t outer success—it’s inner readiness. If you feel the pull to explore who you are beneath the drive and accomplishments, that’s enough.

What if I’m still ambitious? Do I have to stop striving to do this work?

Not at all. This isn’t about abandoning ambition—it’s about changing the fuel source. When you stop chasing success to prove your worth, and start building from peace and alignment, your achievements become more satisfying – and more sustainable.

What’s the investment?

My private coaching is a high-touch, high-integrity experience that ranges from $15,000–$35,000 per year, depending on the structure of our work. Payment plans are available. If you’re truly ready, we’ll make it work. But I don’t “sell” this. We’ll have a real conversation and decide together if it’s a fit.

What’s the time commitment?

Our core structure includes bi-weekly sessions and optional integration work between calls. Some men also join me at my home for one on one intensives as well as at live, small group retreats twice per year. Ultimately, this is about real transformation, not box-checking—so the time you invest will reflect the change you want to create.

Is this therapy?

No. I’m not a therapist. This work often goes to therapeutic depths, but it’s rooted in coaching, somatic practice, inner work, and emotional and spiritual integration. If deeper trauma surfaces and therapy becomes appropriate, I’ll help you find the right support alongside our work.

Will this work for me?

That depends. This isn’t a magic bullet. And there are no shortcuts here. But it works if you do! If you show up ready to tell the truth, stay open, and do the inner work—transformation becomes inevitable. Not just in your actions and outcomes, but in your experience of being alive.

How do I get started?

Click the “Let’s Talk” button below and fill out a brief application. If it feels aligned, I’ll invite you into a conversation—no pressure, no sales tactics. Just a real, honest exploration of whether this is right for you, right now.